Inside this eBook, you will discover the topics about relationship basics, schedule time together, use love letters and a date night, keep yourself in good shape physically and mentally, put your spouse on the top of the list and the importance of saving a marriage.

Are you looking for marriage saving tips that will actually MAKE A DIFFERENCE in your marriage? Put these tips to use to find peace at home.

Do you find that things would just be so much easier if your spouse would do things your way? Most of the time, this just isn't the case.

So you married your complete opposite, your relationship is stressful and the two of you can't even agree on what to have for dinner. Does this mean that for the rest of your life, you are subject to the painful battle of fighting over your way vs. his/her way unless one of you gives in?

No! There is no need to argue over who does what which way. And most importantly, neither of you need to change who you are.

You're about to learn the single most important marriage saving tip that can drastically lower your stress with your spouse. If you understand what you and your spouse value in life, you can cut your relationship stress in half! (Like I did with MY wife!)

It's true. I developed this marriage saving tip after using it to transform my OWN marriage. My 32 year marriage is PROOF that this marriage saving tip can work for YOUR marriage!

Okay, let's get started

The first thing you need to do is talk with your spouse about the things you passionately believe inor feel strongly against.

You can start by discussing the little things in life that bug you (and no, I'm NOT talking about your spouse!) ;-)

Let me give you an example

My wife absolutely HATES gum chewing. Now I'm not talking about people who silently chew their gum with their mouths closed, I'm talking about people who, when they pop a piece of gum in their mouth, EVERYONE knows it.

They pop their gum, smack and chew with their mouths wide open. Yes, I know it sounds trivial, but it absolutely drives her NUTS.

Now, if I didn't know WHY this little pet peeve of hers drives her 'up the wall', I would simply think she's crazy. I might even start becoming annoyed and aggravated whenever she starts to verbally attack the nearest irritating gum chewer.

Now here's the part of this marriage saving tip that most people are not aware of

EVERY one of your pet peeves, habits or BELIEFS are created by a memory or event from the past.

Take my wife for example. The reason she despises people who pop and crack their gum is because HER MOTHER would do it without any regard for her feelingsthroughout her ENTIRE childhood. My wife hated it THEN and she still hates gum chewing TODAY. It simply brings back too many painful memories.

To her, a gum chewer might as well be scratching nails on a chalkboard or screeching a fork against a plate.

The main idea you should walk away with from this marriage saving tip is that you need to discuss with your spouse WHY you do things a certain way, WHY you hate certain things and WHY you love other things.

NOTE: Be sure to talk about the 'problem areas' in your marriage. That IS the point of this discussion after all. Give your spouse your perspective on 'hot topics' in your marriage which could be anything from punctuality, family values, religion, eating habits or even personal privacy.

Ask your spouse questions and have them do the same. Ask questions like

1. Honey, when you were young, did your mother or father have a problem being on time?

2. What happened in your childhood that makes you hate clutter and messes so much?

WARNING: Don't make this sound like an accusation! If you do, your positive discussion will be over!

When you ask your spouse these questions, s/he will probably struggle for words or not come up with an immediate explanation for WHY he or she does these things.