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Gaining Trust and Influencing People.. Dale Carnegie
Four things are necessary to be a good public speaker
First: start with a strong desire
Direct your attention towards self-study, enumerate its benefits and what it will mean to you. Think about self-confidence and the ability to speak more convincingly in front of the audience. Think about what your speech could mean and what impact it could have on the listeners if your talk appealed to them.
said Chauns M. Debio: There is no achievement that any human being can achieve through which he can secure himself a high position, such as the ability to speak in an acceptable manner.
Second, I know exactly what you are going to talk about
A person can only feel comfortable when confronting his listeners after he thinks carefully and plans his speech and knows what he is going to say. Because if he doesn't, he will be like a blind man leading a blind man in such circumstances
Third: act with confidence
One of the most famous psychologists that America gave birth to, Professor William James, wrote the following: “It seems that action follows feeling, and in fact action and feeling go together, and by modifying the action that is within the control of the will more, we can modify the feeling indirectly.”
Thus, the voluntary path to joy, if our spontaneous joy is lost, is to speak as if we were already happy. If this behavior cannot make us feel joy, then nothing can make us feel happy.
To feel brave, act like you are brave. Use all your will to do so, and it is possible that the wave of courage will replace the wave of fear.