I believe that the elements of effective life are a mixture (balanced) of hard work, sound thinking, a sense of humor and self-confidence. This phrase was in the early papers of the book .. And Dr. Wayne wanted his reader to have a balanced life after reading the book because his focus is mostly on Factors affecting the elements of the mixture .. The book talks about the self and the sediments attached to it during the past life and influenced her thought and vision. It begins with deconstructing some of the codes that the self has taken as an approach to life that does not stop talking about it and following it without being fully aware of the danger of these concepts to achieving success or drawing a sincere smile on the lips.