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Shaykh Muhammad Nawawi Ibn Umar (1813-1897) AD / 1230-1314 H)
who is known as Shaykh Nawawi Banten, a scholar
Indonesia, whose scientific capacity is undoubtedly appropriate
earned the nickname Sayyid Ulama al-Hijaz, 4 paid special attention
on the rights and obligations of husband and wife in order to achieve a harmonious and ideal household. For that he wrote the book Uqud al-Lujjain Fi Bayani
Huquq az-Zaujain which contains an explanation of the rights and obligations of the husband
a wife who is equipped with a foundation of the verses of the al-Qur'an, hadiths,
opinions of friends and stories. Not infrequently he also quotes
the opinion of his predecessor scholars, such as the opinion of Ibn Hajar in az-
Zawajir, the opinion of Ash Syarbini in his interpretation.

In this book, the husband and wife relationship is the relationship between the strong
and the weak. Husbands are strong parties who have many advantages
physical, psychological, intellectual and religious, 5 meanwhile the wife
is a weak party, lacking reason and religion, 6 even Nawawi
said "the wife should know if she is like a prisoner or
amah (slave girl) who is weak and powerless in power
husband ”, of course, wives are obliged to obey their husbands when they are ordered to do so
apart from being immoral, you should not refuse your husband's request even if he is
camel back, may not go out of the house and fast unless with permission
her husband