Parents today often take on too many responsibilities themselves, always monitoring their children's growth anytime, anywhere, always afraid of forgetting something. The slogan "Don't let your child lose at the starting line" makes them rush, always afraid that their child will fall behind and become a loser in society. At this time, the most important thing is that we need to stay calm, let ourselves slow down, pay attention to feeling the growth of our children, besides, daring to apply rules that go against common sense - What is considered "stupid" in the eyes of society can be effective and bring many suggestions.